How toxic relationships kill you slowly?

 Toxic relationships can come from anyone - relations, wife. They are so careful in making you believe, whatever you should believe as per their requirement. They are very slow in hampering you. No sudden movements, no points to tell - what have they done to you. These all things are mental - so physical damage seen on the body, sort of torture but no points to prove. They make word "torture" a very frequently and lightly spoken word in household, so that it becomes normal. When you speak the word, it has no big impact. Very low self-confidence and low-social circle denies you of taking any action. You have very less bonding with your parents as due to constant stress, you have fought with them many times. They do not value you much due to less social impact and weak financial situation.

How does the person fee? Weak, helpless. He sees everywhere. Everyone is happy, except him. He does not enjoy time with his kids. As things are not full fine. He is fine physically, so no points to discuss. His spouse is trying to prove him, everything is fine. Its just your mental imagination. I love you. Do not think this way. There is a error in your thinking. Day today life, gets damaged. He has faced this not in months, ..years. So, his wish to fight this cruelty is also very weak. People around him have known him like this only, so believe he is like this. But ask his heart. He is not like this. 

Sometimes, the pain is so much. He denies to believe, this is happening with him. Trust me, he has done a lot to keep his family happy. He fought till last breath to keep his family fulfilled. But cannot forget the hazardous impacts life has given him. 

He is constantly told, you didn't speak at the right time. Now, you do not have the right to speak about this harassment. He agrees he did not speak then. May be he did but not that loudly. He's sorry. But doesn't he deserve some good people around him. He has done no harm to anyone. But they are not allowing him to live. He tells his near ones now, but no use. As if, there ears are deaf. 

All the mistake, he did was he trusted his family, his future. But they are killing him slowly. May be we should help him.